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By Sky Lea Ross. Often, these couples are "looking for a third" for experimentation or to reinvigorate their own love lives. It has made me feel uncomfortable, and I have often been led on by individuals who then later ambush me as a couple or are sneaky and deceptive in their intentions.

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Sure enough, when I asked around or scrolled through Facebook, I saw that others in the bi community have also been exposed to this, which inspired me to do a survey. With the responses of 50 individuals within the amBi Los Angeles social Facebook groupas well as friends within the community, I collected the following data:. For the purposes of this survey, this idea is, in fact, correct.

If you are a couple and are using online dating to find a third, please be upfront and completely honest about your intentions. I hope more apps develop this in the near future.

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Definitely use some of this information to your advantage in knowing what to expect, and if you are unicorn hunted, understand that you are within the majority! Which, if anything, is validating, at least for me! And I want to give a huge thank you to everyone who submitted responses to this survey.

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More so on dating apps. I came across a girl on tinder who I had seen come into my work a lot, who I started to develop a Seeking bi woman for generou couple crush on. I felt it would be inappropriate for me to try and make any moves to get closer to her while I was working, so I saw this as my chance unless I saw her outside of work, which seemed just as unlikely.

We matched and I was so excited. After talking to her I got even more excited because she was even cooler than I thought. I felt hope for a little something more. We went on a date and we had continued talking nearly every day until one day we went out dancing and she brings a guy over and says that it's her boyfriend. I immediately understood what was happening. They both were trying to buy me drinks all night and both were dancing on me. But after a certain point, I just had to leave and go home. I felt very hurt and small.

Like I wasn't wanted for me, but for some experiment between the two of them. Dating is difficult on its own when you're looking for a partner without weird double wrenches thrown into the middle of it. Even pre-pandemic, I pretty much swore off online dating — and one of the biggest reasons was because, no matter how upfront about it I was that I didn't want it, I would continually get unicorn hunted. Even if it was the first thing on my profile, I'd still get asked.

While even now I respect ethical non-monogamy as a valid relationship model and can see the appeal of threesomes and seeking a third, not being heard when I was being explicitly clear about what I wanted was something that made me want to shrink and quit the dating scene rather than explore.

Things you would never say to a person even in a swing club sometimes becomes normal conversation, and it is painfully awkward. If you rebuff them, they get incredibly rude, like they were doing you some sort of favor, and how dare you be uninterested. I was flattered to be invited at first because I thought it was very trusting of them to choose me to open up their relationship with, but after talking through several reasons why I wouldn't accept including the fact that my partner and I had not yet agreed upon being polyI felt very upset and that my demisexuality especially had been completely ignored.

They basically wanted a third, purely sexual partner, and I didn't want that at all — I can't sleep with people I don't have a deep bond with. I felt they purely wanted to use me as a sexual object, and only considered meeting their own sexual needs, rather than thinking about how my emotional needs were going to be met if I had agreed. It made me feel very upset, irritated, and kind of like the only thing valuable about me is my body and sexual desirability, which was horrible.

I've thought most unicorns hunted were women and femmes. Celebrating 25 Years of bi.

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